7! Mistakes you can make while woeing a Nigerian girl

Here are the mistakes most Nigerian men make with women. Avoid these mistakes and you will be "doing" more girls than you can handle.

 

Mistake 1: Respecting a woman too much

All our lives, we were taught to respect women and to shower praises on beautiful women. Do you know that in reality, this is not a good thing? Pretty girls don't like it when you respect them too much or when you over compliment them.

You know why? They have heard such compliments over and over again even before you met them and they are going to hear it again. When you meet a hot girl and you stare at her, compliment her and cower at her feet, you would have joined the list of "weak" men she meets everyday. Hot girls do not like weak guys. Don't be weak.

Mistake 2: Always trying to please a woman

When most men meet and start talking (and maybe dating) a hot girl, they begin to look for all ways to please her. They don't want her to get upset and angry for fear of losing her. They are never late for a date, they call her every hour and so on. That is a very wrong move.

What it means is that you don't feel secured. You believe that you don't deserve her and that there are better guys out there that will snatch her from you if you don't treat her well.

Getting a girl angry and upset is not a bad thing. As long her you're not physically harming her or mentally abusing her, it's okay to upset her sometimes. Women are strangely attracted to this.

Mistake 3: Allowing a potential romance turn to ordinary friendship

Has this ever happened to you? You meet a girl, like her and you begin to get along well. Along the line, you found out that you are becoming more of friends than lovers. Now, you don't even know how to woo her because you have become very close.

This happens to a lot of guys all the time. They do not know how to draw the line with women. They do not know when to turn friendship into romance and how to stop a woman from turning you into ordinary friends.

Mistake 4: Not knowing how to approach girls

I remember a long time ago when I was new to wooing girls. Whenever I saw a hot girl I fancied, I will want to approach her and talk to her and all of a sudden, I'll freeze. Even if I walked towards her, I'll just walk past due to fear.

Not anymore. Most guys however still have this problem of approaching women. Let me tell you this. If you do not meet and approach women, you will not be able to get hot girls to date. It's as simple as that.

Mistake 5: Trying to see a girl all the time

Lots of guys think that when they start dating a girl, it's important to see her regularly to keep the love growing. This is a wrong assumption. Women do not like such guys. They view such guys as people without a life of their own. Women are not attracted to men without a life of their own.

Regular meetings do not encourage attraction. This is the opposite of what guys think. In reality, giving a woman space, time, leaving her to miss you will increase attraction. If you see a girl everyday at the beginning trying to show how much you like her, your chances of winning her over will be greatly diminished.

Mistake 6: Always asking her for approval to do things (like taking her out)

This is one of the traits that irritate women a lot. Women do not want men to look up to them all the time before they make decisions. They want to be "carried along" but they want to look up to their men and not the other way round.
If you try to please a beautiful woman all the time, she will not be attracted to you. They want a bit of pride and arrogance from you. Don't appear to be a weakling.

Mistake 7: Not knowing what women want

Now listen up to hear the truth. There are certain things women (especially the hot ones) want in men. Once you cannot provide these things, they will not be attracted to you no matter how rich you are or how handsome you are.

Once you know these things, you will be sleeping with more girls than you have ever imagined. You will be the ultimate playboy you have always dreamed of.