Being perfect isn’t easy, but it’s totally achievable if you know what
your guy really wants. Guys have a different perception of what they
consider a “perfect girlfriend” to be, but still there’s stuff most of
us agree to be good qualities in a girlfriend. Women are not the only
one’s looking for their soul mate, “the One” is a guy’s goal too. Apply
the 22 tips below so your guy will never ever think of cheating or
breaking up, because you’ll be the perfect girlfriend for him.
The list of “Qualities of a Perfect Girlfriend” below is not in any particular order of importance; see which of them are most applicable to your guy’s desires and preferences. There is always something your guy wants, but he is too shy to ask or tell you. Many of these things he wants are listed below, so learning how to be a perfect girlfriend – that he’ll want to flaunt and watch like a hawk – has never been easier.
(Disclaimer: If you’re not interested in being perfect for him – then why did you even click on this article? If you’re offended by reality (men are pigs), go date a guy that’s BUM and he won’t have high expectations of you in return. The reason you should strive for “perfection” (it doesn’t exist, really, but still) is so that you’ll naturally attract a top-quality guy, and then keeping him will require much less effort.)
Think of this “little” guide as your relationship’s insurance policy (and it’s FREE). It’s offensive, but it works.
Keep things fresh, and stay as beautiful as you were when you just met – even better, work on yourself to become even more beautiful (physically). You can hate him for wanting this, but that’s a reality. It’s not like you’re attracted to elephants… wait, you are? :/
On the other hand, don’t look good for him, but for yourself. You’ll naturally be more confident and attractive when you feel good in your own skin. If you’re overweight, here’s the “magic pill” of weight loss: stop eating sugar (it’s almost everywhere, especially “healthy” stuff, and super-especially – juices). Yeah, it’s that simple. Just stop eating sugar, not fat – sugar. That’s our real enemy.
Another way to look better (if you’re not born with an unfair advantage of supermodel looks and enough money for plastic surgery), is to build a bigger, rounder booty. Big butts are a trend. Don’t believe me? What planet do you live on, girl? This girl doesn’t need to have a brain, any guy would dump you for her at the drop of a hat. Sad, but true.
Have a unique smell, a perfume he loves. Use shampoo that he loves so your natural scent makes him melt of love. Coconut, vanilla. It’s so much easier to love your girlfriend if she’s beautiful and gives her best to stay beautiful for you. Don’t get lazy. We get each other for granted, get lazy, fat, dumb. So keep moving. Moving is living.
When you nag and complain, all men hear is “yada, yada, yada…” – it’s counterproductive. And you’ll only make him resentful and dream about his single days when he didn’t have to report to explain his throwing-socks-all-around-the-place self to anyone (except maybe his mom).
Here’s how you can nag productively:
1. don’t raise your voice, talk to him as if he was a child… or in a seductive voice… you know the way you charmed your parents into buying you something when you were a kid. That tone is golden. 2. say “honey…” (or some other cute name…) at the beginning of a request and “please” at the end. 3. phrase your complaint as a question, not a statement. Let’s say, he’s always late – and inconsiderate… “Honey… I don’t want to nag or complain and stuff like that… (disarm him), but… you know, it would be really nice if you’d be on time (positive term, instead of “stop being late”) more often… it’s OK this time (again), but would you come on time next time, please?” Add a kiss to that. Talk to him like an child that’s relatively stupid. This works like a charm. Especially if he expects you to complain – he’ll be shocked that you didn’t scream at him, and feel a lot worse, than if you’ve gotten into an argument. Be discreet, indirect. If you attack him directly, he’ll feel offended and he’ll try to rationalize his behavior and you’ll just get into a fight.
Nag and complain strategically – so it never seems like an attack, but a bit more deceptive and classy. He’ll do as you say. I promise. Try this next time. On second thought… you shouldn’t be making a big deal about small stuff anyway, woman! ;)
A perfect girlfriend loves her guy more than anything. She really loves him and will do anything to keep him happy and satisfied. If necessary, she’ll even get into a fight for him. Loving him is the first step to being a great girlfriend, he needs to know and feel that you really love him, that there’s a deeper connection – that he isn’t just a rebound or just some guy you’re with because you’re afraid of being alone. That’s not fair to your perfect match. He’ll come along, don’t worry.
If your feelings aren’t true and it’s just a “maybe” – just break up. It’ll be better for both of you.
And if you do really love him… Cuddle, hug, kiss, smooch, make love and say “I love you” whenever you have chance.
Your guy will have a hard time to love you if you can’t love yourself first. Do everything to feel great in your own skin. When you love yourself, you are more confident and you radiate a positive energy that draws people to you. Every day when you look at yourself in the mirror say “I love you, you’re beautiful, you’ll have an awesome day today.” It’s a 5 second ritual that could change your life.
Do good things and make other people happy – this will give you more “life credit” and it will make you feel better about yourself. Make other people happy and you’ll be a happier person. It’s that simple. A girlfriend that radiates a positive energy, smiles every day and enjoys life is definitely a better girlfriend than some cranky b*!ch that sucks the life out of your brain. Like a zombie. There’s only one thing you should be sucking out of him (pun intended).
Let him know that he is The Guy for you and that you need nothing other than him. He needs to feel this. You develop trust in him by showing that you are only interested in him, he also won’t have a reason to be jealous all the time if you’re getting a lot attention. The best way to do this is to have a “don’t ask, don’t tell policy” – never touch his phone, never read his emails, don’t share bank accounts. When a guy feels he has space, that’s when he doesn’t do anything (like cheating), but when he feels “caged” that’s when he does crap. And the best way to have him trust you is by not mistrusting him either.
Sure, his best friend Joe may be an imbecile – but he is still his best friend. You can give him a friendly suggestion if you think some of his friends aren’t good for him, but don’t be aggressive about it. Let him make his own decisions. You are his girlfriend, not his mother, and if you continue complaining about his friends, you might just become an annoying ex.
Again, don’t go at it directly, instead, be strategic. Take your time. Make it seem like it was his idea (to meet new people) or hang out with people you like. Then again, don’t destroy his “power base” and friends… if the only person left in his life after a few years with you – is you – he’ll subconsciously start resenting you.
A perfect girlfriend likes his imperfect friends just out of respect. As I mentioned, the worst you can do to a guy is to take him away from all of his friends and connections, this makes a guy weaker psychologically, and socially less powerful, so it can shatter his confidence – then you might not be as attracted to him as you were when you just met. The best thing you can do is to encourage him to grow his network, meet new people, etc. Once he grows, he’ll outgrow his imbecile friends – over time, and they’ll just stop getting drunk all the time, nobody will figure out those were your “moves” all along.
Remember, it’s a game of chess, not Mortal Kombat.
A girlfriend isn’t “perfect” if she doesn’t perform great in bed. Period.
You can’t just be good in bed – you must be better than all of his ex girlfriends combined. Hundreds of books have been written for women about sex; unfortunately, most of them are complete nonsense. I would only suggest one resource for sex tips, and most men would agree with me.
Great sex brings you closer, and keeps you together for years, and years, even if other spheres of your relationship aren’t perfect. If you ever see some “she doesn’t even look nice” chick with a stud, it is what you’re thinking (her BJ skills).
Find out what makes your guy go wild, and then fulfill all of his fantasies. Yes – all of his fantasies, because that’s what a perfect girlfriend does. She does what other girlfriend’s don’t do. That’s why she’s not single, divorced, or married to a loser. Sex is her secret weapon.
The path to a man’s heart isn’t that complicated.
You need to be amazing in bed, and cook him delicious meals. Steak and BJ Day should be every day. Over-priced marriage therapists would be digging up trashcans.
I know that “contemporary, working women” don’t have time, energy or the willpower to cook anymore. Nobody expects you to live in the kitchen, but visit it every now and then. It works. I know that a delicious meal is just a phone call away, but even if you make him a simple sandwich that doesn’t even taste that good – it’s the effort that counts, not the taste.
As it says in the Bible, Luke 12:33-34 “A real woman never let her man leave the house hungry or horny.” Okay, maybe that wasn’t in the bible. My bad. But they should put it in there. You know, when a guy’s digesting a big beefsteak and he just got an amazing BJ, he’d never go to war. You can save the world after all!
No, seriously, with so many YouTube video’s out there, you should at least learn make the basics. If not for him, for yourself, otherwise you’ll just eat processed junk all the time and or waste money on overpriced restaurants (you don’t want to see their kitchen!). So, if you want to be the perfect girlfriend, get back to the kitchen, and stop wearing pants and flats. High heels and skirts, and then back to the kitchen, woman!
Give him a gift every now and then. Make him feel loved and special. Do what other women will not, or do rarely, then do it more often.
A small token of appreciation is always welcome. Give him a massage. Pamper him. He’ll always return back for more (if not, dump him, he’s not worth your time). But seriously, most guys are not romantic. You’ve watched too many (bad) movies. It’s a dream.
His way of being romantic is slapping your big booty whenever you pass by. Unfortunately, you’ll have to get used to it. But, instead of nagging, take over the initiative. If you want more romance, organize romantic events yourself, light a bunch of candles, get some champagne. You know, keep it fresh. Travel somewhere together. Whatever. Buy experiences, not just things. And whenever you do something nice, he’ll feel the need to reciprocate.
The list of “Qualities of a Perfect Girlfriend” below is not in any particular order of importance; see which of them are most applicable to your guy’s desires and preferences. There is always something your guy wants, but he is too shy to ask or tell you. Many of these things he wants are listed below, so learning how to be a perfect girlfriend – that he’ll want to flaunt and watch like a hawk – has never been easier.
(Disclaimer: If you’re not interested in being perfect for him – then why did you even click on this article? If you’re offended by reality (men are pigs), go date a guy that’s BUM and he won’t have high expectations of you in return. The reason you should strive for “perfection” (it doesn’t exist, really, but still) is so that you’ll naturally attract a top-quality guy, and then keeping him will require much less effort.)
Think of this “little” guide as your relationship’s insurance policy (and it’s FREE). It’s offensive, but it works.
1. Look Better (Than His Future Girlfriend).
A perfect girlfriend always gives her best to look beautiful for her man. Men are visual creatures. We like a woman that looks good, that’s obvious. So take care of your looks. You don’t have to look like a supermodel – not at all, just look the best you can, use body lotion, have soft, silky smooth skin that he wants to kiss around the clock.Keep things fresh, and stay as beautiful as you were when you just met – even better, work on yourself to become even more beautiful (physically). You can hate him for wanting this, but that’s a reality. It’s not like you’re attracted to elephants… wait, you are? :/
On the other hand, don’t look good for him, but for yourself. You’ll naturally be more confident and attractive when you feel good in your own skin. If you’re overweight, here’s the “magic pill” of weight loss: stop eating sugar (it’s almost everywhere, especially “healthy” stuff, and super-especially – juices). Yeah, it’s that simple. Just stop eating sugar, not fat – sugar. That’s our real enemy.
Another way to look better (if you’re not born with an unfair advantage of supermodel looks and enough money for plastic surgery), is to build a bigger, rounder booty. Big butts are a trend. Don’t believe me? What planet do you live on, girl? This girl doesn’t need to have a brain, any guy would dump you for her at the drop of a hat. Sad, but true.
2. Smell Like a Flower… Or something like that.
There’s nothing like smelling amazing for your guy. A scent of a woman can make a man fall deeply in love; your smell gets engraved deeply in his mind. He memorizes it. No matter how forgetful he is. Your smell stays. He can recall it and remember you immediately. So make sure you’ve got a signature perfume.Have a unique smell, a perfume he loves. Use shampoo that he loves so your natural scent makes him melt of love. Coconut, vanilla. It’s so much easier to love your girlfriend if she’s beautiful and gives her best to stay beautiful for you. Don’t get lazy. We get each other for granted, get lazy, fat, dumb. So keep moving. Moving is living.
3. Learn the Art of Productive Nagging.
Look. As far as men are concerned, you’re not “normal” 75% of a month. You’re crazy a week before you get your period, you’re crazy during your period, and you’re crazy a week after your period – so we consider that you’re emotionally (relatively) “stable” only 1 week during a month. When you feel like screaming at him, count to ten. And learn the Art of Nagging.When you nag and complain, all men hear is “yada, yada, yada…” – it’s counterproductive. And you’ll only make him resentful and dream about his single days when he didn’t have to report to explain his throwing-socks-all-around-the-place self to anyone (except maybe his mom).
Here’s how you can nag productively:
1. don’t raise your voice, talk to him as if he was a child… or in a seductive voice… you know the way you charmed your parents into buying you something when you were a kid. That tone is golden. 2. say “honey…” (or some other cute name…) at the beginning of a request and “please” at the end. 3. phrase your complaint as a question, not a statement. Let’s say, he’s always late – and inconsiderate… “Honey… I don’t want to nag or complain and stuff like that… (disarm him), but… you know, it would be really nice if you’d be on time (positive term, instead of “stop being late”) more often… it’s OK this time (again), but would you come on time next time, please?” Add a kiss to that. Talk to him like an child that’s relatively stupid. This works like a charm. Especially if he expects you to complain – he’ll be shocked that you didn’t scream at him, and feel a lot worse, than if you’ve gotten into an argument. Be discreet, indirect. If you attack him directly, he’ll feel offended and he’ll try to rationalize his behavior and you’ll just get into a fight.
Nag and complain strategically – so it never seems like an attack, but a bit more deceptive and classy. He’ll do as you say. I promise. Try this next time. On second thought… you shouldn’t be making a big deal about small stuff anyway, woman! ;)
4. Love Him (Like, For Real).
A perfect girlfriend loves her guy more than anything. She really loves him and will do anything to keep him happy and satisfied. If necessary, she’ll even get into a fight for him. Loving him is the first step to being a great girlfriend, he needs to know and feel that you really love him, that there’s a deeper connection – that he isn’t just a rebound or just some guy you’re with because you’re afraid of being alone. That’s not fair to your perfect match. He’ll come along, don’t worry.
If your feelings aren’t true and it’s just a “maybe” – just break up. It’ll be better for both of you.
And if you do really love him… Cuddle, hug, kiss, smooch, make love and say “I love you” whenever you have chance.
5. Love Yourself (Even When There’s Nothing to Love About You).
Being insecure and asking “am I fat?” 20 times a day is annoying. Stop being insecure – it’s not attractive.Your guy will have a hard time to love you if you can’t love yourself first. Do everything to feel great in your own skin. When you love yourself, you are more confident and you radiate a positive energy that draws people to you. Every day when you look at yourself in the mirror say “I love you, you’re beautiful, you’ll have an awesome day today.” It’s a 5 second ritual that could change your life.
Do good things and make other people happy – this will give you more “life credit” and it will make you feel better about yourself. Make other people happy and you’ll be a happier person. It’s that simple. A girlfriend that radiates a positive energy, smiles every day and enjoys life is definitely a better girlfriend than some cranky b*!ch that sucks the life out of your brain. Like a zombie. There’s only one thing you should be sucking out of him (pun intended).
6. Don’t Give Him (Too Many) Reasons to Be Jealous.
Obviously, a perfect girlfriend isn’t just faithful, but also never makes her guy even feel jealous at all. You don’t flirt around with other guys if you love your boyfriend.Let him know that he is The Guy for you and that you need nothing other than him. He needs to feel this. You develop trust in him by showing that you are only interested in him, he also won’t have a reason to be jealous all the time if you’re getting a lot attention. The best way to do this is to have a “don’t ask, don’t tell policy” – never touch his phone, never read his emails, don’t share bank accounts. When a guy feels he has space, that’s when he doesn’t do anything (like cheating), but when he feels “caged” that’s when he does crap. And the best way to have him trust you is by not mistrusting him either.
7. Like His Friends (Or Pretend You Do).
There’s nothing worse than a girlfriend that doesn’t like your friends – and openly complains about them.Sure, his best friend Joe may be an imbecile – but he is still his best friend. You can give him a friendly suggestion if you think some of his friends aren’t good for him, but don’t be aggressive about it. Let him make his own decisions. You are his girlfriend, not his mother, and if you continue complaining about his friends, you might just become an annoying ex.
Again, don’t go at it directly, instead, be strategic. Take your time. Make it seem like it was his idea (to meet new people) or hang out with people you like. Then again, don’t destroy his “power base” and friends… if the only person left in his life after a few years with you – is you – he’ll subconsciously start resenting you.
A perfect girlfriend likes his imperfect friends just out of respect. As I mentioned, the worst you can do to a guy is to take him away from all of his friends and connections, this makes a guy weaker psychologically, and socially less powerful, so it can shatter his confidence – then you might not be as attracted to him as you were when you just met. The best thing you can do is to encourage him to grow his network, meet new people, etc. Once he grows, he’ll outgrow his imbecile friends – over time, and they’ll just stop getting drunk all the time, nobody will figure out those were your “moves” all along.
Remember, it’s a game of chess, not Mortal Kombat.
8. Be a Sex Goddess. Scratch that. Be His Personal Sex Goddess.
A girlfriend isn’t “perfect” if she doesn’t perform great in bed. Period.
You can’t just be good in bed – you must be better than all of his ex girlfriends combined. Hundreds of books have been written for women about sex; unfortunately, most of them are complete nonsense. I would only suggest one resource for sex tips, and most men would agree with me.
Great sex brings you closer, and keeps you together for years, and years, even if other spheres of your relationship aren’t perfect. If you ever see some “she doesn’t even look nice” chick with a stud, it is what you’re thinking (her BJ skills).
Find out what makes your guy go wild, and then fulfill all of his fantasies. Yes – all of his fantasies, because that’s what a perfect girlfriend does. She does what other girlfriend’s don’t do. That’s why she’s not single, divorced, or married to a loser. Sex is her secret weapon.
9. Can You Even Boil An Egg? Don’t lie.
The path to a man’s heart isn’t that complicated.
You need to be amazing in bed, and cook him delicious meals. Steak and BJ Day should be every day. Over-priced marriage therapists would be digging up trashcans.
I know that “contemporary, working women” don’t have time, energy or the willpower to cook anymore. Nobody expects you to live in the kitchen, but visit it every now and then. It works. I know that a delicious meal is just a phone call away, but even if you make him a simple sandwich that doesn’t even taste that good – it’s the effort that counts, not the taste.
As it says in the Bible, Luke 12:33-34 “A real woman never let her man leave the house hungry or horny.” Okay, maybe that wasn’t in the bible. My bad. But they should put it in there. You know, when a guy’s digesting a big beefsteak and he just got an amazing BJ, he’d never go to war. You can save the world after all!
No, seriously, with so many YouTube video’s out there, you should at least learn make the basics. If not for him, for yourself, otherwise you’ll just eat processed junk all the time and or waste money on overpriced restaurants (you don’t want to see their kitchen!). So, if you want to be the perfect girlfriend, get back to the kitchen, and stop wearing pants and flats. High heels and skirts, and then back to the kitchen, woman!
10. Surprise!
Give him a gift every now and then. Make him feel loved and special. Do what other women will not, or do rarely, then do it more often.
A small token of appreciation is always welcome. Give him a massage. Pamper him. He’ll always return back for more (if not, dump him, he’s not worth your time). But seriously, most guys are not romantic. You’ve watched too many (bad) movies. It’s a dream.
His way of being romantic is slapping your big booty whenever you pass by. Unfortunately, you’ll have to get used to it. But, instead of nagging, take over the initiative. If you want more romance, organize romantic events yourself, light a bunch of candles, get some champagne. You know, keep it fresh. Travel somewhere together. Whatever. Buy experiences, not just things. And whenever you do something nice, he’ll feel the need to reciprocate.
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