You see him on Sunday morning well dressed
in his three piece suit and looking freshly
anointed. The picture you see is that of a
cherub, who has just arrived from the
heavens with a message for the people and
would be back there soon after.
Once he starts to preach, the congregation is
overwhelmed with the awe he exudes.
Because this is all they know about him, some
followers believe that is all about the pastor.
Ask some Christians and they will bet their
life savings that their pastors have never
visited the toilet, not to talk of having
sex. Where on earth do they have the time for
such "things", they seem to assert in illusion.
But Pastors crave more sex than others..
The pastor is perhaps the most
misunderstood and over-rated being on earth
today. He is rated as a semi-god, incapable of
enjoying the pleasures that life presents him.
This is so because he rarely talks to his
adherents about other areas of his life.
Bosede Olusola-Obasa of PUNCH, asked some
pastors and pastors wives if they have erotic
feelings and sexual closeness with their
spouses like other people.
They said the illusion that pastors don't have
sex life only lies in the minds of few ignorant
congregants.
Sex is a beautiful gift from God within the
marriage context. It is not possible for my
husband not to have sex. He feels the same
way other men feel because he is human. It is
the food of our marriage just as food is to the
body. We make it a regular affair because the
absence of it can negatively affect our
relationship and even his work as a pastor,
said Pastor (Mrs.) Kemi Olofinkua of the New
Anointing Deliverance Church, Anifowose,
Ikeja, Lagos.
She said that both she and her husband do not
take sex for granted because starving one
another could cause a scandal, especially if
not properly managed.
She said that she seldom turned down her
husbands invitation because strange women
would willingly offer themselves if allowed.
Olofinkua said, People who think pastors
don't have sex must be funny. No matter the
level of anointing, a pastor needs his wife at
home. The difference between a pastor and
other men is that he can cope whenever his
work demands that he abstains from sex.
But it is dangerous to make him burn with
desire for sex without satisfying it with his
wife. If this happens, he could be pushed out
into the waiting arms of many others because
pastoral work usually endears pastors to
people “ men and women. As a pastors wife, I
don't take my husbands sexual need for
granted. When he beckons, no matter how
tired I am, I don't turn him down.
Similarly, Pastor Mrs. Shade Toyin-Kehinde
said it is a fallacy to think or say that pastors
don't have sex with their wives.
She said, Pastors are not woods. It is the
same with pastors as it is for other men. Sex is
an integral part of every marriage. It is anti-
god to wish it away. A healthy, regular sex is
important to pastors because it makes them
to maintain focus and avoid falling on the laps
of other desperate women, who wish to have
them because of the glory on them.
She said that she makes it a point of duty to
serve her husband, especially after he has
done great spiritual exploits, adding that a
pastor who has a poor sexual relationship
with his wife would engage in extra-marital
affairs.
She said, If your wife has just served you hot
pounded yam and egusi soup before leaving
home and someone then offers you beans, you
will naturally turn down the offer because
you're satisfy. I don't joke with my sexual
relationship with my husband and I never say
no to him.
Toyin-Kehinde, who is the wife of the Pastor
in charge of Agape Generation International
Church, Maryland, Lagos, said there should
be no week without sex between a pastor and
his wife. She said a healthy sex in marriage
enhances holiness.
She said, The anointing attracts goodwill and
people. Some women in church get so carried
away that they tell the pastor I just like you.
The pastor's wife must help her husband to
overcome these overtures by being there for
him.
My husband doesnt flirt but we have devised
means to stay close always. Our offices are
just side-by-side. When a woman comes to
him for counselling and she is not properly
dressed, he directs her to me. We preach
healthy sex in marriage and we practise it.
She said it is unfortunate that some pastors
pretend to be too busy to enjoy sex in
marriage.
84-year-old pastor shares experience
Speaking from a male pastors viewpoint, 84-
year-old clergyman, Rev. Moses Iloh, who is a
Senior Pastor at Soul Winning Chapel, Ebute
Meta, Lagos, offered personal love
experience.
Having been married to his wife, Love, for 48
years, he said that a healthy sexual
relationship, among other things, has made
him a very happy man.
He said that the secret of the erotic
relationship between him and his wife is
doing everything together.
Iloh said, When we are 50 years in marriage,
we will get married again; we did same when
we turned 25.
From the first day of marriage, we bathed
together, ate together, shared the same
bedroom. Our bodies belong to one another.
With these activities, there can be no barriers
to a good sex relationship. We dont starve
ourselves of sex, he said.
Iloh regretted that some pastors allow
themselves to be overtaken by temptation
because they neglect their wives in the name
of being busy.
He said It is foolish for a pastor to abandon
his wife because he is doing God's work. His
wife is his priority.
If you take good care of your wife, she will
make love to you willingly. That is what I have
been doing. I am 84 and very agile, happy
because I have a happy home. Matrimony is
the happiest thing that happened to me. My
wife is not around now but wherever I am, I
am always rushing home to be with my wife,
friend and confidant.
People who run into hurting relationships
are open to illnesses and may die young. They
should seek help.
Another male pastor, Pastor Bisi Adewale,
said that nothing could be farther from the
truth than believing that pastors do not have
sex with their wives.
He said pastors crave sex just like every
other man and there should not be any
pretence about it.
My wife is not available right now; she would
have told you more. Pastors demand for sex
more than men who are not pastors because
they have only one wife to turn to. The fact
that we are pastors doesn't eliminate our
biological make up. There should be no
pretence about this matter.
I heard of a pastor who said he was looking
for God's power and abstained from his wife
for more than 10 years and a prominent
pastor in the country had to travel to Port
Harcourt to settle the issue. His wife needed
him, but he wasn't there. He didnt get her
consent to go on a long period of abstinence to
fast and pray to seek the power of God. His
wife had to resort to the use of vibrator.
He gave another instance when a pastor
abstained from his wife for a long time to seek
power until his mechanic impregnated his
wife.
He said pretending about the need for sex is a
major cause of scandals in ministries and it
should be avoided.
in his three piece suit and looking freshly
anointed. The picture you see is that of a
cherub, who has just arrived from the
heavens with a message for the people and
would be back there soon after.
Once he starts to preach, the congregation is
overwhelmed with the awe he exudes.
Because this is all they know about him, some
followers believe that is all about the pastor.
Ask some Christians and they will bet their
life savings that their pastors have never
visited the toilet, not to talk of having
sex. Where on earth do they have the time for
such "things", they seem to assert in illusion.
But Pastors crave more sex than others..
The pastor is perhaps the most
misunderstood and over-rated being on earth
today. He is rated as a semi-god, incapable of
enjoying the pleasures that life presents him.
This is so because he rarely talks to his
adherents about other areas of his life.
Bosede Olusola-Obasa of PUNCH, asked some
pastors and pastors wives if they have erotic
feelings and sexual closeness with their
spouses like other people.
They said the illusion that pastors don't have
sex life only lies in the minds of few ignorant
congregants.
Sex is a beautiful gift from God within the
marriage context. It is not possible for my
husband not to have sex. He feels the same
way other men feel because he is human. It is
the food of our marriage just as food is to the
body. We make it a regular affair because the
absence of it can negatively affect our
relationship and even his work as a pastor,
said Pastor (Mrs.) Kemi Olofinkua of the New
Anointing Deliverance Church, Anifowose,
Ikeja, Lagos.
She said that both she and her husband do not
take sex for granted because starving one
another could cause a scandal, especially if
not properly managed.
She said that she seldom turned down her
husbands invitation because strange women
would willingly offer themselves if allowed.
Olofinkua said, People who think pastors
don't have sex must be funny. No matter the
level of anointing, a pastor needs his wife at
home. The difference between a pastor and
other men is that he can cope whenever his
work demands that he abstains from sex.
But it is dangerous to make him burn with
desire for sex without satisfying it with his
wife. If this happens, he could be pushed out
into the waiting arms of many others because
pastoral work usually endears pastors to
people “ men and women. As a pastors wife, I
don't take my husbands sexual need for
granted. When he beckons, no matter how
tired I am, I don't turn him down.
Similarly, Pastor Mrs. Shade Toyin-Kehinde
said it is a fallacy to think or say that pastors
don't have sex with their wives.
She said, Pastors are not woods. It is the
same with pastors as it is for other men. Sex is
an integral part of every marriage. It is anti-
god to wish it away. A healthy, regular sex is
important to pastors because it makes them
to maintain focus and avoid falling on the laps
of other desperate women, who wish to have
them because of the glory on them.
She said that she makes it a point of duty to
serve her husband, especially after he has
done great spiritual exploits, adding that a
pastor who has a poor sexual relationship
with his wife would engage in extra-marital
affairs.
She said, If your wife has just served you hot
pounded yam and egusi soup before leaving
home and someone then offers you beans, you
will naturally turn down the offer because
you're satisfy. I don't joke with my sexual
relationship with my husband and I never say
no to him.
Toyin-Kehinde, who is the wife of the Pastor
in charge of Agape Generation International
Church, Maryland, Lagos, said there should
be no week without sex between a pastor and
his wife. She said a healthy sex in marriage
enhances holiness.
She said, The anointing attracts goodwill and
people. Some women in church get so carried
away that they tell the pastor I just like you.
The pastor's wife must help her husband to
overcome these overtures by being there for
him.
My husband doesnt flirt but we have devised
means to stay close always. Our offices are
just side-by-side. When a woman comes to
him for counselling and she is not properly
dressed, he directs her to me. We preach
healthy sex in marriage and we practise it.
She said it is unfortunate that some pastors
pretend to be too busy to enjoy sex in
marriage.
84-year-old pastor shares experience
Speaking from a male pastors viewpoint, 84-
year-old clergyman, Rev. Moses Iloh, who is a
Senior Pastor at Soul Winning Chapel, Ebute
Meta, Lagos, offered personal love
experience.
Having been married to his wife, Love, for 48
years, he said that a healthy sexual
relationship, among other things, has made
him a very happy man.
He said that the secret of the erotic
relationship between him and his wife is
doing everything together.
Iloh said, When we are 50 years in marriage,
we will get married again; we did same when
we turned 25.
From the first day of marriage, we bathed
together, ate together, shared the same
bedroom. Our bodies belong to one another.
With these activities, there can be no barriers
to a good sex relationship. We dont starve
ourselves of sex, he said.
Iloh regretted that some pastors allow
themselves to be overtaken by temptation
because they neglect their wives in the name
of being busy.
He said It is foolish for a pastor to abandon
his wife because he is doing God's work. His
wife is his priority.
If you take good care of your wife, she will
make love to you willingly. That is what I have
been doing. I am 84 and very agile, happy
because I have a happy home. Matrimony is
the happiest thing that happened to me. My
wife is not around now but wherever I am, I
am always rushing home to be with my wife,
friend and confidant.
People who run into hurting relationships
are open to illnesses and may die young. They
should seek help.
Another male pastor, Pastor Bisi Adewale,
said that nothing could be farther from the
truth than believing that pastors do not have
sex with their wives.
He said pastors crave sex just like every
other man and there should not be any
pretence about it.
My wife is not available right now; she would
have told you more. Pastors demand for sex
more than men who are not pastors because
they have only one wife to turn to. The fact
that we are pastors doesn't eliminate our
biological make up. There should be no
pretence about this matter.
I heard of a pastor who said he was looking
for God's power and abstained from his wife
for more than 10 years and a prominent
pastor in the country had to travel to Port
Harcourt to settle the issue. His wife needed
him, but he wasn't there. He didnt get her
consent to go on a long period of abstinence to
fast and pray to seek the power of God. His
wife had to resort to the use of vibrator.
He gave another instance when a pastor
abstained from his wife for a long time to seek
power until his mechanic impregnated his
wife.
He said pretending about the need for sex is a
major cause of scandals in ministries and it
should be avoided.
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